Menu Planning Ideas

by Maria on May 17, 2013

cupboard menu plan{This post is part of a series called, “Maria’s Dine-In Challenge.” For details on the challenge click here.}

Menu planning doesn’t have to be stressful, it’s all about finding the approach that works best for you. Like I mentioned in this weeks video, I feel a little bit like the pot calling the kettle black with this post. I am not the worlds best menu planner, not even close actually.

Luckily I have found a few menu-planning approaches that work well for me. For me, the key to feeling more confident with meal planning has been finding an approach that fits my personality and lifestyle. Today I want to share three different ideas. Two that I use and the other is one a friend of mine uses. My friend Alberta is an organizational master. She has an awesome system for menu-planning that saves her a lot of time and headache in the meal planning department.

I think we can all agree that having a menu plan frees our minds to focus on the more important things in our busy lives and takes the stress out of one of our many never ending tasks. Plus, I find that when I have a menu plan it has a positive effect on how I approach grocery shopping and organizing my kitchen.

Menu planning on cupboard

Alberta’s Rotating Menu Plan

I met Alberta about five years ago when we were living in New Jersey. I have had the pleasure of eating in her home (she is a great cook) and seeing her awesome menu-plan in action. Alberta has a gift for organization and believe me when I say you could learn a lot form her, I sure did in the few short years I lived near her.

Alberta uses a rotating menu plan, and has managed to create it in a way that still allows for a great deal of variety. You will love her menu planning approach. While you are over on her blog make sure to check out her families Thanksgiving Eve Tradition, and her post on eating Quinoa for Breakfast. Alberta and her sisters have many other awesome, creative and resourceful ideas on their blog. Her sister just made the cutest skirt ever out of an old bridesmaid dress.

Calender Menu PlanningOn the Calendar Approach

One of the two ways I have had success with menu planning is by sitting down on Sunday evening with my calendar and writing in a meal for each day of the following week or sometimes two or three weeks. I take into account what is going on each day so I can decide if I should do a quick meal, a crock pot meal or if I have enough time to do something a little more time intensive.

I usually keep the same groceries stocked and most of my meals can be planned from those items. This is the perfect approach for busy weeks. Putting the menu plan right on the calendar helps me make sure I am being realistic about what can be prepared on our busiest days, and if I feel like something other then what I had planned on a specific day, it isn’t too big of a hassle to pull a switch-a-roo.

This takes me about 5-10 minutes on Sunday night and saves me a lot of stress during the week.

Meal Ideas on side of fridgeNote Card Meal Planning Approach

My Friend Rebecca taught me how to meal plan this way. She kept a note card on the side of her fridge with meals listed that she had all the ingredients for. She would decide each morning which one she wanted to make and then cross it off that night after she made it. I remember thinking, “Now, why didn’t I ever think of that.” This approach was made for me, food rules my life, and there is no guarantee I will wake up craving what I have on the menu plan for that night. I have used her meal planning approach often and have found a way to make it really work for me.

I take the Rebecca’s note card approach a step further by making lists of things I have on hand for breakfast, lunch, and snacks. I keep them on the side of the fridge or taped inside the pantry. I have found that by keeping these other lists where I can see them and where the kids can see them, it takes the stress out of the frequently asked, ”What’s for lunch?” “What can I have for a snack?” questions.

I like the note card approach because it is simple and works well for the stage of life I am in. It really helps me to eat out less, because in those common moments of hunger and stress trying to figure out what we will eat when we get home form running errands or whatever we are up to that day, I already know there is a whole list of ideas on the side of the fridge and it keeps me from throwing in the towel and heading for the nearest drive-thru. I also love having a reference for the kids to pick what they want for a snack or for breakfast and lunch.

Note Card Menu PlanningIf we run out of something I have listed on the snack list I cross it off, or if I make something like banana bread or energy bites I add it to the list. When the cards start looking too ratty I make new ones. Keeping these list of what we have in the house really helps me use up what we have and cut out waste. I do a similar list system to help me keep track of what I have in the freezer and pantry. I will be posting about soon.

Like I said, I am far from a perfect meal planner, and there are plenty of times at our house, when organization goes totally out the window for a while, but I always come back to these two meal planning approaches that have worked for me over the years. Don’t forget to check out Alberta’s Rotating Menu Plan, It is AWESOME! I hope you can find something here that will help you in your own attempts at meal planning and being intentional about feeding your family. After all, that is what this whole Dine-In Challenge was meant for.

How do you do your menu planning? Do you use any special apps or computer programs for your meal planning? I would love to hear what works for you.

Stay tuned for a post on my favorite kitchen tools!

Maria

Spice up your date night!

by Davina on May 17, 2013

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When date night is boring…or non-existent…

you know that something needs to change.

From the early days of our 19 years of married life our date nights have been non-negotiable.

Mike and I go on a date every Friday or Saturday night.  Dates help me through the rest of the week.  I love them.  Can’t live without them.

People ask me how I manage to go out on dates…I wonder how they can manage to NOT go on a date.

I believe dating your spouse is marriage insurance.  They protect your marriage and save you money…in therapy.  We get to talk, have fun, be together without our kids, let our kids know that we love each, keeps us sane, and we have fun…oh wait!  I already said have fun.

And it’s romantic and exciting and living to have fun!

I’m going to be fast posting this because, well…we’re not done having fun tonight.  Mike just took our babysitter home…and the kids are all asleep…

We went to a five-and-dime store in town and got some fun (and politically incorrect) games.  It was raining like crazy so we found a newly built strip mall and played undercover of their awning to keep us dry.  We had fun laughing, being silly, and acting like kids.  We played capture the bowling ball pin and used our guns to defend our bowling ball pins (after we had already bowled using every possible silly stance we could think of to throw our balls down the lane…).  We made playdoh sculptures that looked like nothing and then made up what we thought they looked like…crazy imagination stuff.

Competitions galore with the pink bouncy balls.  We tried to see who could do the most bounces, then who could do the most bounces without moving their feet, then who could bounce back and forth between hands without missing a catch, then we tried to beat a brick wall by seeing how  many times we could bounce the balls off the brick wall to each other.  Good times.

It was a great date!

We’ve also gone mini golfing and then played skee-ball.  The winner got to pick what we buy with our tickets.  I chose the whoopee cushion (and who can resist invisible ink?)  I can almost never pass up a photo booth.

Dating the person you love most in the work can revive feelings that feel like they passed out from no oxygen years ago.  Get dressed up beyond yoga pants and treat your spouse like you want to impress them.  It’s the second date, you already know you’re totally diggin’ their awesomeness and you know that this is the make or break date for seeing them again.  Treat your dates together like this is your chance to really let them know that they are the sun to your moon and when you think of true they are your Kip to your LaFawndah.

Most of all have fun! Ditch the dinner and a movie and have a date on only $5 or go to a field and paint a portrait of each other or don some roller skates and skate around the roller rink to 80s songs and hold hands under the light of a colorful disco ball.

When dating is fun, you want to get out of the house as often as possible.  We have a little theme each week to keep it fresh.  This week was a date for under $10.  Our next date is sports and fitness (maybe we’ll go roller skate and do the limbo).

So get out, get a babysitter, and go have some fun together.

Don’t forget the Big League Chew and make sure to stick that  folded up package of gum in your back pocket for full-kid-fun-effect.

And kiss…a lot.

What kinds of things keep you from dating your spouse each week?

 

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