
It can’t be all about the food now can it? Thanksgiving has definitely taken on the role of the dinner table holiday, sometimes it seems like that is where the celebration begins, and ends. But looking back at some of my favorite Thanksgivings and what made them memorable, I found it had little to do with the food. So today I thought we would have a Show and Tell of sorts. I will share a few ideas, and then I would love for you to share how you make Thanksgiving special. We are all bound to find something fun to incorporate this year!
- Thanksgiving Crafting – When I was younger my family would go to Thanksgiving at a cabin of a family members every year. I loved it, especially when snow had fallen, so fun. One of my favorite parts of these Thanksgivings was the crafting the women would do after the big dinner. Someone was in charge of a craft and would bring all the supplies and everyone just paid the same amount to join the fun. The craft was always some sort of Christmas decor and were never anything hard. Just simple things that could be finished that night, and taken home to add to the Christmas decor. It could be a wreath, table center piece, something for the mantel or even just an ornament. The idea is to get everyone around the same table and have a little fun while the men watch football.
- Giving Thanks. Who Are You Most Thankful For? – When I lived in Utah, I had the best neighbor. I still miss her, she was literally the only reason I stayed in my house. Her family had a fun Thanksgiving tradition where each family member has to think of one person from the year past that they were the most thankful for, outside of the family. They then would make a special dessert and take around a note of thanks and the plate of goodies to each person they had chose. Her son chose the dentist one year because he had taken care of a tooth ache, favorite teachers, and church leaders were all part of the list. One year she came to my door and gave me a plate with a little note saying that year, when she thought of who she was most thankful for, it was me and our friendship. Talk about making someone’s night! She said it was fun for the kids because even dad had to participate and they loved seeing who he chose every year. What a great way to make everyone think of who they are thankful for, no?
- Ornament Exchange - I just heard of this one the other day and thought it was a fun idea. It came from a local DJ on my favorite radio station no less! Every year all the women in her family would have an ornament exchange at Thanksgiving. She said it had become the most anticipated event for them every year. Some were handmade, others were picked up from travels, or from an antique shop. It had become something the women would think about all year. What great ornaments were they going to find for the offering? Her favorite to date had been a set her great aunt had brought back from France. I love love this idea!
Okay, now it’s your turn. Anything special your family does, or fun ways you have heard of to make Thanksgiving fun? I hope you share, you all know I love traditions!















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Two of our non-food Thanksgiving traditions are a street hockey game before we eat pie and our annual viewing of Elf after we eat pie. So they revolve around food, but they don’t actually contain food!
Thanks for your post. I posted a link in my Favorite Feeds Friday!
My family also exchanges ornaments each year on Thanksgiving. We look for that special ornament all year long and really enjoy the exchanges.
I love the idea of a craft to make together…just may have to come up with one this year!
I think the ornament Idea is so great because those that craft could craft and share that way, those that travel could share part of their experience, and those that just plain like to shop can have their fun too!
The craft really was the highlight I remember from those Thanksgivings, I was pretty young but remember always looking forward to at least watching them.
Thanks Lora!
My family and I go to my parents lakehouse and it’s so fun and relaxing. Now that I have a toddler she gets to enjoy the time too! Also, it isn’t a tradition but was lots of fun- when my husband and I were dating I filled up 100 balloons with a note in each of a reason I was thankful for him. I think this could be lots of fun to do for your whole family and their set of balloons (obviously much smaller) could be tied to their place at the table and they could have fun popping them and reading why mom is thankful for them!
Oh a lakehouse, see now I am just jealous! Is it near Arkansas? Do you take visitors? We’ll bring food
…Ever sense me and my sister saw Dan In Real Life we have been wanting to get to a lake house with the family. She went with her kids to one this last summer and had a bawl.
I love the idea of the balloons, and you’re right for the kids too, but oh my hubbs, he would love that.
Thanks so much for sharing Natalie.
First, I have to say I did Aubrey’s Thankful turkey craft idea with my tot. (I know…it’s amazing that I actually did this!) Every day we add new feathers with things/people we are thankful for. He calls him Tom Turkey and says thank you to Tom every time we put him back up on the fridge. Thanks Aubrey for the idea. I love it.
Our tradition is a little strange. We listen to Alice’s Restaraunt by Arlo Guthri every year on Thanksgiving. If you are not the hippety-dippety peace loving gal like me, this is not for you but it is a great song! Now my tot is old enough to sing the chorus along with us. “You can get anything you want at Alice’s Restaraunt!”
Best,
Tina
Great idea! I’ll have to pass this one on to our family to see if they would be interested in starting a tradition!
I love the idea of an ornament exchange! I might just have to do this with my family!
Just found your page and already LOVE it.
My family’s traditions are crazy whether they involve food or not (I swear someone calls everyone and says bring as much food as you can pack in your car, there is ALWAYS too much!)
Everyone parks on the neighbors yard or the street, even the people who live at the specified house, no idea why, there is plenty of room. the joke is so that we have to burn off at least a little bit of what we ate.
the tables are always covered with paper (think easel paper as a table cloth) and taped down, with crayons scattered around, everyone writes and draws on it, adults too.
we all say what we are thankful for, with a twist, we write it down and put them in a bowl, the leader (the person whose house we are at) draws one, reads it aloud and we all have to guess who wrote that one down (we arent allowed to say phone or tv or anything general) we always laugh because every year someone slips an extra slip of paper in that says “FOOD, SO CAN WE EAT NOW” and its always read last. And try as i may i never see anyone drop in two slips.
Oh see, to me this is what Thanksgiving should be all about. When I was younger, we would go to a family members cabin in the Utah mountains and it was the best. If we were lucky and it had snowed, we would sled on those old sled styles that you can drive all the way down canyon road and then they would pull us back up with the snowmobiles. So fun.
Thanks so much for sharing Tiffany!
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